This year it’s valentines with a twist. What’s the twist you ask? Well, how about a dose of sickness to go with it. Nooooo!!! Friday night my in-laws came over for our homemade pizza buffet and I was proudly announcing how well our family has been this Winter; in stark contrast to last year. Boy, was I in for it. By Saturday night, Brendon was hit by some type of terrible cold with fever and on top of the sickness, he’s in the middle of growth spurt. A real treat.
You know how I say, I don’t mind the “sleep all day, party all night” stage with newborns. Clearly I have forgotten what it is like to be woken up several times through the night by a crying human for three straight days. IT. IS. BRUTAL Or maybe I am just getting too old for this song and dance? My friend Payge was talking of glorious 10hrs of sleep a few weeks ago. When will this happen for me??!!! But okay, you got me. He is sick. I give him that.
Last night really took the cake. Son enters room at probably 1am loudly cry talking, “my hair smells!!” That one I was not expecting and yet the fun was not over. We had another 3am wake about the leg pains. Oh the joys of parenting. But anywho, on with the show!
The valentines show that is!
This year, I started the boys’ class valentines in early January. I thought we were going to be moving by first week of February and like all previous pending moves, my creative spirit went on hyper drive. I of course, started surfing the web and came up with a couple front runners using planes and army men, which I’m sure would’ve been a hit with the classmates. Then….I watched a Ted talk on becoming a zero waste family.
Ya, No. We can not do that. We are consumers, but it was very eye opening and made me realize how far hubby and I have come from our minimalist D.I.N.Ky ways. So this year, My goal to reduce, reuse and recycle turned into corralling the many legos littered around our house into cute valentine packages. I had everything except the little bags – cost $2.50 with coupon. Cheapest valentine idea to date and I think they turned out pretty well. The boys wrote their names on the back and they weren’t even bothered by me giving away their legos. A sign they do indeed have too many.
I like to reminisce the days of my youth when we gave out paper valentines, each classmate’s name written by us, not mom, on the envelope and stuffed with a few loose conversation hearts. The fact that our parents had minimal involvement and also that we didn’t care about germs and unwrapped candy, speaks to how much more complicated we’ve made our lives over the last 20 years. But, I’m a pinterest mom, so I really don’t have much room to speak.
Just last week the boys made construction paper valentines for their teachers. All on their own, when they were bored and I was unwilling to give them screen time. They were adorable. I of course did not get a photo, but here is the second bat that Brendon made, much like the one he made for his teacher. John made a self drawn and cut out heart from pink construction paper, complete with a little note written on it, especially for Mrs.B. And he wrote the whole thing. I should mention John is READING!!! and really, really reading. I forgot how exciting it is when they first start reading. Truly magical.
This troll down memory lane to say, next year, my goal is to be more hands off on the whole class valentine ordeal and let the boys have more creative say and making of the valentines. It’s a goal. We’ll see how it goes.
And of course, you know I love to do something for those teachers, who dedicate their professional life to educating our mini humans. This year – homemade pencil pouches, my favorite colored pens and some chocolates.
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!